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Redefining Intimacy:Embracing Healthy Sexuality During Menopause

Menopause can affect sexual health:Menopause can cause changes in a woman's sexual health, including a decrease in sex drive, vaginal dryness, and painful intercourse. Men need to be understanding and patient with their partners during this time.

Women commonly report low sexual desire (40-55%), insufficient lubrication (25-30%), and painful intercourse (12-45%), which is a complication of genitourinary syndrome of menopause (GSM) reported by 50% of middle-aged and elderly women.

Contributing factors

The decline in sexual response can be attributed to a decrease in sex hormones like estrogens and androgens. However, it is important to recognize that psychological and relational changes associated with ageing, as well as an increase in metabolic and cardiovascular health problems, also affect sexual function.

Predisposing factors: Besides biological factors (gynecological or surgical interventions, Premature Ovarian Insufficiency, endometriosis, iatrogenic menopause- bilateral oophorectomy, chemotherapy, radiotherapy- and endocrine factors) affecting sexual function in menopause, there are many other factors like psychosexual (like previous sex life, body image, personality traits, history of sexual abuse/violence, affective disorders, coping strategies) and contextual (ethnic/cultural/religious expectations and constraints, support, and network).

Precipitating factors: Apart from biological factors (age at menopause, biological vs. iatrogenic menopause, Iatrogenic menopause, extent and severity of menopausal symptoms, current disorders, substance abuse) factors precipitating the issue can be psychosexual (relationship, sexual experience, affective disorders, loss of partner) and contextual like life stressors (divorce, separation, partner infidelity), loss or death of close kin, lack of access to medical treatment, economic difficulties.

Maintaining factors: Factors maintaining the issue may be due to biologicalreasons (changes secondary to menopause i.e. hormonal, vascular, muscular, neurological, immunological changes, contraindications to hormone therapy, inadequacy of hormone therapy, pharmacological treatments, substance abuse); due to psychosexual factors (perception of menopause changes, loss of sexual confidence, affective disorder, distress (i.e. personal, emotional, occupational, partner), partner’s general health or sexual problems) and due to contextual4.factors of lack of access to care and interpersonal conflicts

Sexual Health in Menopause:
Hormonal, and Psychosocial

Not all women experience a decline in sexual functioning as they age or go through menopause. The psychosocial aspects and the hormonal environment contributing to the maintenance of a healthy sexual life in menopause are important.

Hormonal Changes and Sexual Behavior

Declining androgens also contribute beyond estrogen deficiency

Genitourinary Syndrome of Menopause (GSM)

GSM often leads to vaginal dryness, decreased lubrication, discomfort or pain with sexual activity, post-coital bleeding, irritation/burning/itching of the vulva and/or vagina and pelvic pain. Sex steroids play a crucial role in developing and maintaining healthy genital tissues. Their deficiency also contributes beyond low estrogen levels.

Psychological and Relational Predictors for Sexual Dysfunction in Menopause

Sexual Dysfunction impacts not only the symptom bearer, but also her partner, on a sexual, emotional, and interpersonal level. A couple-oriented approach is important that addresses the sexual health needs of the ageing couple as a whole, rather than treating the woman alone.

Associated Morbidities: Cardiovascular and Metabolic Diseases

Vascular insufficiency in female genital tissues can be one of the contributing factors in women caused by cardiometabolic insults. Hormone levels and vascular health work together to maintain the integrity of female genital tissues.

Sexual issues in menopause are underdiagnosed and undertreated. Educating the women is crucial, as there is a general lack of awareness that many options are available to maintain and improve genitourinary and general sexual health.

Discuss with your doctor who can help you with treatment options for menopause-related sexual dysfunctions. Your doctor may suggest hormonal treatment or non-hormonal treatment options for you based on your severity of symptoms, effect on quality of life, potential adverse effects, and personal preferences.

Menopause and Relationships:
Navigating Changes with Your Partner

Menopause, the natural end of menstruation, can bring about physical and emotional changes that impact your sex life. While some women experience a decrease in libido (sex drive), others find their sexuality remains strong or even improves. The key is understanding the changes, open communication with your partner, and exploring ways to maintain a fulfilling and healthy sexual experience.

Vaginal Dryness

Decreased estrogen levels can lead to vaginal dryness, making sex uncomfortable. Lubricants can help ease discomfort.

Reduced Blood Flow

Decreased blood flow to the genital area can affect arousal and orgasm.

Body Image Changes

Weight gain or body image concerns can affect self-confidence and sexual desire.

Emotional Shifts

Stress, anxiety, or mood swings related to menopause can impact your interest in sex.

  • Communication is Key: Talk openly and honestly with your partner about any changes you are experiencing, anxieties you might have, and what feels good for you.
  • Explore Foreplay: Spend more time on foreplay to increase arousal and blood flow, making sex more enjoyable.
  • Embrace Lubricants: Vaginal dryness is a common issue. Water-based or silicone-based lubricants can significantly improve comfort during sex.
  • Discover New Positions: Experimenting with positions that maximize comfort and arousal can be fun and reignite your sex life.
  • Prioritize Self-Care: Getting enough sleep, managing stress, and maintaining a healthy lifestyle can improve your overall well-being and indirectly enhance your sexual desire.
  • Explore Different Forms of Intimacy: Physical intimacy is not the only expression of love and connection. Explore cuddling, massages, or non-genital touch to maintain intimacy.
  • Seek Professional Help: If you are struggling with sexual issues, do not hesitate to talk to your doctor. They can address any underlying medical concerns or recommend a sex therapist to help you navigate intimacy during menopause.
  • Remember:Menopause, the natural end of menstruation, can bring about physical and emotional changes that impact your sex life. While some women experience a decrease in libido (sex drive), others find their sexuality remains strong or even improves. The key is understanding the changes, open communication with your partner, and exploring ways to maintain a fulfilling and healthy sexual experience.

Interesting facts about sex and menopause

Desire Can Fluctuate

Libido can fluctuate throughout life, not just during menopause.

Orgasms Can Change

The way you experience orgasms might change due to hormonal shifts, but they can still be very pleasurable.

Talk Therapy Can Help

Sex therapy can address emotional or psychological factors that might be impacting your sexual desire or satisfaction.

Embrace the Journey!

Menopause can be a time of self-discovery and new beginnings, including a fulfilling and evolving sexual life.

Menopause and Relationships:
How Hormonal Changes Affect Intimacy

Menopause is a natural transition for women, but it can bring about changes that impact not just the individual experiencing them, but also their relationships. Here's a guide to help couples navigate these changes and strengthen their bond:

Understanding the Impact of Menopause

  • Physical Changes: Menopause can cause hot flashes, night sweats, vaginal dryness, and sleep disturbances. These can lead to fatigue, irritability, and decreased energy levels.
  • Emotional Changes: Mood swings, anxiety, and depression are not uncommon during menopause. These emotional fluctuations can affect communication and overall well-being.
  • Shifting Priorities: Menopause can be a time of self-reflection for women. Priorities and desires might change, leading to a reassessment of personal goals and needs.

Communication is Key

  • Open and Honest Conversations: Talk to your partner about the physical and emotional changes you're experiencing. Share your anxieties and concerns openly.
  • Active Listening: Your partner needs to listen without judgment and offer support.
  • Empathy and Understanding: Try to see things from your partner's perspective and empathize with the challenges they might face due to your changing needs.
  • Focus on "We": Acknowledge that menopause is a transition for both of you. Frame your conversations using "we" language to emphasize that you're navigating this together.

Maintaining Intimacy

  • Physical Intimacy: Menopause can cause changes in sexual desire and arousal. Explore ways to maintain intimacy, such as prioritizing foreplay, using lubricants, and experimenting with positions
  • Focus on Non-Sexual Intimacy: Cuddling, massages, and spending quality time together are equally important for emotional connection and intimacy.
  • Maintain Physical Affection: Holding hands, hugging, and other forms of physical affection can reinforce your bond and express love non-sexually.

Supporting Your Partner

  • Educate Yourself: Learn about menopause and its effects on women. This knowledge can help you better understand your partner's experiences.
  • Be Patient: Changes take time. Be patient with your partner and offer emotional support as they navigate this transition.
  • Rekindle Romance: Plan date nights, surprise them with small gestures, and prioritize quality time together.
  • Offer Practical Help: If your partner is struggling with sleep disturbances, help out with household chores, or offer a comforting massage.

Seeking Professional Help

  • Couple's Therapy: If communication is strained or you're struggling to adjust, consider couples therapy. A therapist can provide a safe space to discuss your challenges and develop healthy coping mechanisms.
  • Individual Therapy: Individual therapy can help each partner manage their own emotional response to the changes and develop coping strategies.

Remember

  • Menopause is a natural part of life, not the end of a healthy, fulfilling relationship.
  • Open communication, empathy, and a willingness to adapt are key to navigating this transition together.
  • Prioritize intimacy, both physical and emotional, to maintain a strong bond with your partner.
  • Don't hesitate to seek professional help if you need additional support in navigating the challenges of menopause as a couple.
  • By working together and prioritizing open communication, you and your partner can strengthen your relationship and emerge from this transition even closer.

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